Fads and Diets come and go.. We have never really been able to stick to them, mainly because we do not see them as sustainable, or the food tastes like card board, or yeah… I’ll say it.. we lack the discipline to follow through with it.
Since November we have been on a quest to get a little healthier, loose some weight and in general get fit. It’s been a struggle for me, Teresa has been doing a great job. She found a program for her that is working and is super motivated to shed the weight. While I am motivated, getting the weight off has been a struggle. I tried a running app on my phone. It was extremely hard for me to keep up with, and while I liked the program, it was too hard and I could not get the momentum to maintain the pace. I am the kind of guy that likes to see results, even if they are small gains, it is tough for me to fight loosing battles. The running app became a loosing battle for me and I lost motivation. Teresa on the other hand has been steadily on a walking routine. So I decided that if it is working for her it could work for me. We go to the gym every day together and so joining her walking regimen seemed like a good fit. I started two weeks ago doing her program and getting on board with her eating habits.
Going with the Meat and Green diet seems to be making strides. 2 pounds down and it is food worth eating and an exercise program that I can keep up with.
The brisk walking pace, cutting out a bunch of sugary junk, and going easy in the “extras” the results are looking good… so far.
I have told myself that this is it…. I have to stay the course and maintain motivation. If I do, I will see the reduction in weight and get fit to meet my goals!
Fads and Diets may come and go.. but what is important to me getting healthier. If it’s important it moves up on the must do ladder… And I’m climbing it!
Have a Happy Day!
It’s been two months since my last day of employment. My retirement day and “ceremony” was nothing special other than the drive home when I realized that waking up every morning was going to be different. I would have to find a new purpose for getting out of bed. Life was no longer about waking up and providing for the family, the retirement plan would now take care of that. For the first week I spent time realizing how life would be different. I created task lists and to do’s. I spent time thinking about future direction and the projects that I would be taking on, we established our goals for 2019 and beyond. And low and behold I became busier that I ever have been. A good kind of busy though, a busy that is driven by me and what I want to do, when I want to do it.
I have mentioned before that I am very active in Scouting. Scouting has taken a large amount of my time. It is time that I love giving as I know and have seen the benefits of the program in building up youth and leading them to be good people that will one day assume leadership in our communities. That is a subject for another time, but I share this to say that being retired has allowed me more time to give to Scouting.
I was asked a few months before my retirement if I would entertain the idea of leading a major project for the local Scout Council. Taking on the Committee Chairman position to lead the Contingent to the 2021 National Jamboree. I accepted this position with the understanding that it would essentially become a full time job (not paid). And so far it has lived up to that expectation. There is almost something every day that I have to dedicate to this effort. Don’t get me wrong.. I love it and it has been a ton of fun…. so far.
But today marks the two month mark since my retirement. Teresa and I had discussed as we were planning for the retirement what the first few months would look like. How the money would be budgeted, what to do with my time, and of course, how much time we could spend in the RV. So with the holidays right on the heals of the retirement, the kids house burning, and the birth of our grandson, it has been a real busy two months. We did manage to get our in the RV once in November, but it soon became a temporary home while the insurance found a place for the kids to stay. That is all working out just fine now for the kids and it looks like their house will be ready to move in around April or May.
So in the first two months all things considered all is well. We are not worried about the money, we are keeping busy, going to gym every morning, and then there is the blog and the Youtube Channel. Which we have taken on as a project to share our happy life.
The blog is… well you tell me… doing well? I am not sure what that means or how to measure it. I see the number of views and subscriptions have gone up, but in the two months since we started it we are not certain that our goal of establishing community has moved the needle. We have not received feedback and our comments sections are extremely quiet. So I assume that just takes time and time is something that we have for sure.
The Youtube channel relaunch also has been real quiet. While our effort thus far has been in getting our plan together as to what our channel is going to look like and we are creating content and plans for future content, the growth of the channel is pretty non existent… but that too takes time and with more and more content we hope hope that it will grow. For us it is about sharing the story. We understand that there are millions of options on Youtube, but as we watch other channels we get the idea that there is something for everyone and a place for everyone’s story to be told. So we will be hanging in there and will continue to create content for both the blog and the Youtube Channel. It’s only been two months, the reality world that I live in knows that all good things need to grow and that simply takes time. Time that we have.
It’s been two months to the day… and All is well.
Thanks for coming along with us on our journey.
Can I ask that you if you like what we are doing.. share it with a friend. Check out our Youtube channel… and again, if you like what you see, share it. If you don’t like it today.. check back.. the future looks fun for us and what we are trying to do.
Have a Happy Day!
Ok then.. you made all those resolutions and are motivated to make 2019 the “Best Year Ever”. It is the 7th of January… how’s it going? One week into the New Year and I just came home from the gym. Yep you guest it. At least a third less people that started a week ago. Now I’m not judging here, just saying that if you really want something… DON’T GIVE UP!
You need to set the goal and go get it! We talked about goal setting in another post and how it can help you find success. That success leads to more and more success and soon it becomes easier to set and keep goals. I think that too many people give up because they don’t get immediate results. I sure worked that way.. but reality is what it is. If I could write a goal to lose 10 pounds and POOF! It happened tomorrow I would be a happy camper. But the fact is that it takes work, time, and energy, and most of all WILL.
You need to will to cross the finish line. Today was hard at the gym. I felt the affect of skipping two days (had to be there for my Grandson to be born). The holiday meals and treats caught up and the alarm clock went off way to early. But it’s the 7th of January and I had to make a choice. I had to get up, put on the gym clothes and get in the gym. I had to do the work so that tomorrow will be easier to get up and get the work in. And so it goes. That journey starts with a single step, but put a handful of steps together and you gain momentum that will lead you to accomplishing your goals!
So don’t give up.. especially on yourself.
So there is you Motivation for Monday.
Find yourself a reason.. find the will.. and GO FOR IT!
We would like to introduce you to the newest member of our Family. Levi Adam.
Levi is our First Grandchild…. and we can not be more happy to finally meet him.
We are so proud of our Son and Daughter In Law. Levi is healthy and has already brought so much Happiness to our lives!!! A terrific way to Start 2019!
Mom and Dad are doing great and are adjusting to being new parents.
Everyone for the last few months have been talking about how great being a Grand Parent is. After 24 hours, I can totally see what they mean. Our lives have changed over time and this is a very welcome change and addition to our Happy lives.
Levi was born on January 5th and weighs in at 7lbs 3 oz. So far he has been a quiet little guy, but has certainly showed off his ability to let everyone know when he needs attention or wants to be close to his mom.
Did I mention we are so Happy! Can’t wait to take our little guy camping!
Thanks for letting us share!
We wish you the very best in the New Year!
Thanks for coming along with our Journey to find Happiness in our lives and keep our dreams alive!
As we all set goals and look forward to what the New Year brings find your Happy Place and take those that you love along for the adventure!
Happy New Year.. Hope you all have a Fantastic 2019!
Jerry and Teresa!
I am not a big believer in “New Years Resolutions”. Time and time again resolutions last about as long as it takes to make them and while it is a great intention, in the end there is no results that come with the resolution.
Setting goals for the new year however, if done correctly will produce results. In an earlier post I talked about goal setting and how it can give you the results you are looking for. And so it is that time of the year that we look to the new year and set new goals. In Scouting Wood Badge terms, we “Write our ticket” for the new year and know that we will get the results that we want.
So for 2019 we are setting goals to be more healthy. Yeah, there will be other goals, but we think that our health drives much of how the rest of our lives will go.
Being healthier will make us happier, it will allow us to be more active, it will make us feel better, it will reduce our doctor visits, it will save us money in the long run, and it will give Teresa and I some together goals that will make us stronger.
Our Mission: To develop and Maintain a healthier life style, lose weight (10 lbs), and be more physically active.
1. Start eating better. Do more fat free and less processed food cooking at home (or in the RV). We will do this together and hold one another in account. We are doing this to set the tone for healthy habits and lose weight.
We will start now and evaluate how we are doing weekly. We want to see this as a solid habit by March.
2. Exercise. Exercise needs to be a habit also. To make sure we accomplish this as a habit we are going to add additional exercise elements to our routines.
We will add biking. Making sure that we take our bikes with us on camping outings. When at home we will work in biking at least once a week (weather permitting). When the weather is not in our favor we will do sit ups and squats those days we would be biking. As we are coming into the worst of the winter months in Oregon, we will double up on the sit ups and squats and reevaluate in February.
3. Gym Time! We will be in the gym daily. Weekends will be our rest days. Every day we will wake up and go to the gym (continuing the routine we have established since November). Teresa will maintain her work out routine and I will stay the course on the weight loss running program I am on. Using the Running for Weight Loss App. This app is available in the Google Play Store also. So far I really like it which will make it easier to keep as a habit. I am trying to lose 10 lbs by March. I will use the app to track that progress and stay on task.
4. Drink water. This will be a tough one. But water will become my go to beverage. I need to drink more water. To do this I will start taking a 1 liter water bottle with me all the time. This will serve both as a reminder to drink water and have water available all the time.
5. Complete a 5 K run. Not for time of competition, but just do it. There is one scheduled on February 2nd. I would like to be able to do that event. Once that is complete, I would like to do more. I will reevaluate that one after February.
Well that is the first set of goals and the BIG 5 List for this week!
What are your goals or if you must “resolutions” for 2019?
From our Happy Place to Yours we wish you the most Happy Christmas! This year has brought us lots of Joy and Happiness as we have been on our Journey to Discover a Happier life. We are truly blessed and have a wonderful life… there can always be more though. We look forward to the New Year and all it will bring. Happiness, Challenges, a New Grand Baby!
This Christmas we hold our Family close and are reminded of those things that are the most important to us.
Find your Happy Place this coming Year! And join us in our Journey to a Happy Life!
Jerry and Teresa