Happiness: The State of being Happy.
Synonyms: Pleasure, Contentedness, Satisfaction, Cheerfulness, Cheeriness, Merriment, Merriness, Gaiety, Joy, Joyousness, Joviality, Jollity, Jolliness, Glee, Blitheness, Carefreeness, Gladness, Delight, Good Spirits, High Spirits, Light- heartedness, Good Cheer, Well-being, Enjoyment, Felicity.
Joy: A feeling of great pleasure and Happiness.
Synonyms: Great Pleasure, Joyfulness, Jubilation, Triumph, Exultation, Rejoicing, Happiness, Gladness, Glee, Exhilaration, Ebullience, Exuberance, Elation, Euphoria, Bliss, Ecstasy, Transports of delight, Rapture, Radiance.
I had an interesting discussion yesterday with a dear friend of mine about Happiness. We talked about this journey that Teresa and I have set ourselves upon to have a Happy life. He expressed that he was not as much interested in finding happiness as he was in finding Joy. He thought this was an important distinction, I called it semantics. So I had to look it up. It turns out that it can be a matter of semantics.. or… a matter of perception. You see, my friend is a great guy and a Godly man. His perspective, while we both see the same thing is viewed through the lens of Grace. I hope I am not over simplifying this, but when I think Happy and all that it mean in our lives, he see’s Joy. After looking at the synonyms for both words the appear to be interchangeable. It will come down to what you are feeling or looking for as you seek Happiness or Joy. I can totally see where he is coming from because I know him.
Good Spirits and Light Heartedness are all well and good for him… but being Elated and having a feeling of Exhilaration are much, much better. And don’t we all want that. Everyone that knows me knows that I love to laugh, joke, and have a great time. They also know that my friends are a big part of what makes me happy. It is exhilarating to have wonderful people in my life that make me happy.
As we entered this “Retirement stage” of my life I took stock of the way we lived our life. I have mentioned before that the Happy Place Diaries is not our attempt at finding Happiness, rather it is our quest to keep our lives Happy. And that requires us to know what that looks like (our vision of happiness). As we talked about our life and what we want we went to the definition of Happiness and looking the synonyms we loved what we saw. It fits us.
Happiness and Joy go hand and hand. After our little discussion last night I can’t help but think of this like a steak from Sizzler or a steak from Ruths Chris Steak house. They are both steak, but one is a better cut, much better flavor, and just the thought of it makes your mouth water. They are both good and fit, but Joy is taking Happiness to the next level.
So maybe in a few years we will start the Joy Place Diaries.. a Journey to a Joyful life… or we keep being happy with the life we have.. Content with who and what we are and we find Joy in that.
We are blessed to have friends like this. He brings Joy into my life and I am glad we had some fantastic talk last night.
I hope that you all are finding Happiness and Joy in your lives.
Your thoughts are welcome.